Don't become unattractive and lazy As the years go by, you can tend to become lazy about your looks. Remember how you used to make it a point to be so well groomed, well turned out and so beautiful? Well, what makes you think that he does not long to see you looking as gorgeous as before? Don't turn into a slob and lose all that poise and elegance. You could pay for it! Be a source of pride for him Make him very proud of you. Every time you walk into a room clinging to his arm, he should see the looks of envy on the faces of his friends. Show him that he was right in choosing you. Make him thrilled to have you as his wife or lover. Prove that you are the type of woman who will make his life better not worse.